With their natural beauty, comforting presence, and symbolic meaning, flowers are an important tradition at funerals throughout the world.
And different flowers represent a range of sentiments. So the flowers you choose can help represent your feelings of sympathy and loss.
While the flowers you choose may simply be a personal favourite of a deceased loved one, or a favourite colour, there is also a language of flowers that is more meaningful.
Different flowers can be arranged in combination with one another to express your personal taste, sentiment or that of a loved one.
A florist can help you find the perfect flowers, and the colour is fairly uniform across flower-types, but the brief guide here should get you started.
Lilies
Lilies signify purity and have ties to beliefs about life after death. Lilies can suggest that the deceased’s soul has been renewed to a state of innocence.
Stargazer lilies symbolise sympathy and compassion, Oriental lilies represent eternal life, and peace lilies suggest a rebirth following death. Casablanca lilies symbolise positivity and celebration.
Lilies are the flowers most requested with funeral directors in the UK.
Roses
For a funeral service, white roses symbolise purity, humility and innocence, whereas red express love and respect and pink represents gratefulness to the deceased.
A yellow rose represents deep friendships, while the traditional dark crimson rose suggests deep sorrow and grief.
Orchids
In general orchids symbolise love and beauty and come in many colours, each representing something different:
- Red orchids represent passion and desire but can also express strength and courage.
- White orchids represent reverence and humility, innocence and purity.
- Pink orchids symbolise joy and happiness and can also signify innocence and femininity.
- Purple orchids symbolise admiration, appreciation and dignity.
- Yellow orchids represent friendship, happiness and new beginnings.
- Orange orchids symbolise enthusiasm, boldness and pride.
- Green orchids are said to bring good luck, good health, nature and the longevity of life.
Gladioli
Gladioli have a long stem that is made up of numerous flowers. These can measure up to 4 feet tall and are frequently used in fan spray tributes. Gladioli embodies strength of character, sincerity, and integrity.
Chrysanthemums
The Chrysanthemum flower symbolises truly deep friendship. It’s given by people who consider each other good or even best friends. The Chrysanthemum also symbolises rebirth and as they naturally bloom in the spring and early summer.
Carnations
The carnation is one of the most popular flowers in the world. It’s a popular choice of flower for any funeral arrangement or service, as it is typically known for representing love, fascination, and distinction.
White carnations. Display faithfulness, innocence and purity. An appropriate choice for the funeral of a child.
Pink carnations. Express remembrance and gratitude for the deceased. This type of flower is often used to symbolise a mother’s or grandmother’s enduring love during their lifetime.
Red carnations. Similar to red roses, help to express strong, deep feelings of true love and aspiration. It is an appropriate flower for a wife, husband or partner.
Hydrangea
They are often associated with heartfelt emotions and sincere appreciation. This is why they are a favourite choice of flowers for funerals around the world.
Daffodils
The daffodil symbolises friendship and invokes thoughts of the spring season when they are most often in bloom as clusters of soft yellow. Daffodils can grow in many different shades of yellow, orange, white, green, and pink.
Sending daffodils to the family members and close friends of the person who has passed away is similar to sending a card with words of inspiration and encouragement. It sends them the message that they will get through this difficult time, and eventually find happiness again after grieving the loss of a loved one.
Daises
Daisies represent positivity, innocence, and a heartfelt farewell. Often daisies are used in flower arrangements and floral tributes for the funerals of children and new-borns. Daisies can be grown in many places around the world, as long as they have enough water.
Final Thoughts
Funeral flowers hold significant symbolism, offering a poignant means of expressing condolences and honouring a loved one.
From serene lilies representing peace to the comforting presence of chrysanthemums, each flower carries a personal message of remembrance and respect.
So, whether conveying love, hope, or the spirit rebirth, floral tributes bring more than just colour to a funeral. During times of grief, flowers represent cherished memories, loving relationships and celebrate the lives of those we have lost.


